Are We Fools For Love?
Have you ever been in love? What is Love? Do you love him/her?
These are questions, that I don't know if you Ladies/Gents have asked yourselves, but Yes I have. I came across this video of the classic movie of Summer 2000 "Love&Basketball" when I typed in the vocalist/poet Me'shell Ndegeocello and this footage popped up. I say what better video to represent the in/outs of a relationship but this scene with the character Monica(Sanaa Lathan) trying to recapture the heart of her first love Quincy (Omar Epps), and the infamous line "Double or Nothing"... a tearjerker, AN utter CLASSIC!. This movie became my favorite from the first time I watched it. Funny, when I was younger I definitely based my relationship's off the story line of the fictional character's Monica&Quincy relationship. I honestly have been in love once , twice, have felt like a fool many a times and have questioned what love is. To me Love is God, think bout it when you have been heartbroken you ask God why. I have asked God for guidance on men constantly, in this lifetime there's no way you can't say you couldn't tell how your relationship is/isnt going. To truly feel in love with a man/woman I feel you must be satisfied with self. You can't begin to love someone profoundly&deeply without first loving yourself. No man or woman should substitute as your reason to love yourself. A man/woman shouldn't make you smile, you can do that on your own. When someone special comes into your life they should "add" to the reason's why you smile (stated by Kyanna Dickerson,Business Owner&Stylist). This was just brief summary on the love subject, enjoy the video.